A Lot of Flash, No Bang: The Flash That Never Banged

A Lot of Flash, No Bang: The Flash That Never Banged

For me, some memories are so vivid that I can picture exactly where I was when they occurred. Details can be fuzzy, but 30-plus years will do that. I was in the dining room area of the house where we lived the second half of my childhood in Westfield, Massachusetts....
Accountability: The Promise You Keep to Yourself

Accountability: The Promise You Keep to Yourself

The Myth of “Don’t Talk About It” Maybe it’s just my algorithm and the kind of content I tend to consume, but I’ve seen a few posts on Facebook lately declaring, “Don’t talk about it until it’s done.” That idea stands out to me—mostly because I’ve tried every approach...
I Am My Own Worst Critic—And That Needs to Stop Now

I Am My Own Worst Critic—And That Needs to Stop Now

“I am my own worst critic.” We say it like it’s a badge of honor. A sign that we hold ourselves to high standards. That we’re serious. Driven. Motivated. But let’s be honest—being your own worst critic isn’t a strength. It’s a productivity killer in disguise. The...
Discipline Delivers What Motivation Can’t

Discipline Delivers What Motivation Can’t

We give motivation way too much credit. It’s nice when it shows up, sure—but if you’re counting on it to carry you through, you’re going to stall out. Motivation is inconsistent. It disappears the moment things get uncomfortable. It’s great when it’s there, but it’s...